Monday, 30 March 2015

Happiness: An Inside Job or NOT?

We very well know that we are not supposed to give our happiness in other people’s hands. We need to learn to be happy on our own and not try to find it out there. And happiness is an inside job. Bleh! I, myself try to follow and understand all these famed sayings, because they sound just so intelligent coming from all those successful people.





Maybe.


But let’s be honest to ourselves! The thought of being happy on our own is incorrect. What’s even the point of buying a car and not being able to give your best friend a ride? What’s the point of having all the satisfaction and happiness in life and not being able to share it with your beautiful mother? What’s the point of buying a pretty party dress and wearing it when you are home alone? What’s the point of buying an amazing book and reading it and keeping it to you? What’s the point of eating a hazelnut cookie alone, when you can eat it in front of younger brother and not give it to him?

NO ONE CAN.


You need them (people), no matter how much you don’t want to need them, but your every attempt fails, because you know that you need them now, you always did and you always will. Humans can’t survive desolation. But just knowing all the facts enough? Just knowing what’s right enough? Rudolf Virchow’s theory perhaps had a very profound meaning which can be applied almost everywhere, ‘Omnis cellula e cellula’. So, the way I see it, the whole concept of seclusion is pretty pointless and in many ways selfish.


JUST. *hidesface*


“Happiness is not real, until shared.” –Into The Wild. 


YAYYYY! :P


2 comments:

  1. Nice try...but wat I think 'Making ur own happiness' really means is dat u got to stop depending on others for ur happiness...like choosing to be happy even if someone hurt u...it doesn't necessarily mean dat u got to be alone n be happy... It just means dat u HV to be in charge of ur own happiness,no matter wat people say or do... U got to 'choose' to stay happy...
    Well, dats just my take on it...

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    1. That's also a way to look at it. And that makes a lot of sense too. I agree with you. But there are times when you just can't do it alone. And happiness when shared, increases, isn't it.

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